Minna,
We got home from RH services to find your call. Not a surprise, but still....     Thanks for letting me know so quickly.
We learned from friends here, after we got back from STL, that S. Africans don't say "My condolences" or" I'm sorry for your loss" but rather  "I wish you long life." Seems right to me.
I think it's wonderful that you were there to help Maurice fulfill his last wish, which was to die on his own terms in the house that he and Golda built, filled with children and lived in for 50+(?) years. I have so many memories of times in my childhood spent in your family's warm, loving household. And you're right-- he chose a holy day for his departure, and he was a holy man during his time with all of us.
Your dad and my mom had a special connection. Mary couldn't replace Golda, and Maurice couldn't replace Fritz, but they found support, companionship (and maybe love?) with each other during those years.
Won't call, because I know from recent experience that you have a lot to do right now. But pls. let me know when you're home and things settle down. Marty and I are leaving Sept. 17 for 3 wks in Europe-- a trip planned but drifting uncertainly all summer as we didn't know what was happening with my mother. Maybe the timing of her passing was a parting gift, so that we could go?
Thought you'd like to see these obits I wrote:
For the Salem radio/newspaper
http://www.wjbdradio.com/Results/?operator=search&keyword=katzenstein&searchButton.x=0&searchButton.y=0
And for the weekly Jewish paper in St. Louis. (Mostly the same content).
http://www.stljewishlight.com/life_cycle/obituaries/article_2ac62102-116e-11e3-a87d-0019bb2963f4.html
Good luck with the formal good-byes. Marty and I will be thinking of you.
much love to all the Shulmans,
Dodo